SERVING CLIENTS ACROSS KANSAS AND OKLAHOMA
Advanced Resolutions Counseling offers online therapy for adults throughout Kansas and Oklahoma
THERAPY FOR EMOTIONAL REGULATION & NARCISSISTIC BEHAVIORS
At Advanced Resolutions Counseling, we specialize in helping individuals navigate:
Emotional dysregulations and anger issues
Frequent interpersonal conflicts
Narcissistic personality disorder
Borderline personality disorder
Sexual addictions and dysfunctions
Depression and anxiety
Maybe you have a hard time maintaining relationships or have even been told by a partner that they think you’re a narcissist. Hearing things like this from a loved one can feel unfair and upsetting. Even if you’re not sure that it’s true, we can help.
Everyone deserves to experience healthy connections and relationships with others, and, often, the best place to start is the development of emotional regulation skills.
We also focus on interpersonal skills, such as improving communication, resolving conflicts, addressing interpersonal issues such as anger, controlling abusive behaviors, respecting and establishing boundaries in a relationship, and dealing with a range of issues that make relationships difficult.
By addressing these skills and finding new ways of looking at yourself and your relationships, we can help you improve your ability to manage challenging situations in multiple areas of your life.
THERAPY FOR TRAUMA AND ABUSE
Trauma is anything that has affected your emotional wellbeing or your ability to have satisfying relationships:
Previous or current physical, sexual, or emotional abuse
Domestic abuse
Neglect or abandonment
Severe or challenging breakups
High-conflict or hostile relationships
Foster care and/or adoption issues
Even if it feels like what happened doesn’t seem “big” enough or “significant” enough to be considered trauma, you deserve support, and we can help.
We specialize in helping individuals who have been or are currently in relationships with someone who exhibits narcissistic behavior. These types of relationships can be uniquely challenging for several reasons.
Often, you love this person and want to be in a relationship with them, but you know things can’t stay the way they are right now. Maybe you are considering couples therapy to work on your relationship together.
Someone with narcissism will often begin therapy to save their relationship and temporarily appease their partner, without recognizing their own behaviors and actions. However, a person who has narcissism will rarely stay in therapy.
Most of the time, if they are not affirmed that they are not the problem – or if they are confronted for their behaviors – they will claim the therapist is incompetent and will discontinue therapy. In rare situations, a person who has narcissism becomes self-aware of this condition and truly seeks help to change their way of thinking and behaviors for their own good.
Our therapists are skilled at navigating both sides of this condition to treat either the person who has narcissistic behaviors and the person who is being negatively affected by a narcissistic relationship – or both.
If you are affected by relationships with narcissistic behaviors, we will focus on helping you recognize the warning signs and effectively deal with this issue by setting firm boundaries, establishing self-care, navigating an ongoing co-parenting relationship, or sometimes getting away from the relationship entirely.
THERAPY FOR RELIGIOUS AND SPIRITUAL CONCERNS
In addition to faith-based counseling, Advanced Resolutions Counseling also offers therapy for those navigating challenges within their spiritual or religious communities to help clients experience personal growth, emotional reconciliation, and sometimes a redefined or renewed sense of faith or spirituality.
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Church hurt refers to the emotional, psychological, or spiritual pain caused by negative experiences within a religious community or from its leaders. This pain often stems from actions that violate trust, exploit power, or fail to align with the teachings of the faith. Church hurt can lead to deep disillusionment, alienation, and questioning of faith.
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Spiritual trauma is a deeper, more pervasive wound that occurs when a person’s religious or spiritual experiences are tied to abuse, fear, or intense emotional manipulation. It often leads to long-lasting psychological and emotional harm, affecting the individual’s ability to trust others, including spiritual authorities, or engage with their faith.
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A spiritual dilemma occurs when an individual experiences internal conflict or confusion regarding their beliefs, values, or relationship with a higher power. These dilemmas often arise when a person’s personal experiences or changing worldview clashes with the religious teachings they were raised with or continue to follow. This can lead to deep existential questions, emotional stress, or a sense of loss.
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A person experiences a “spiritual crisis” or “spiritual distress” when they blame God for bad things happening in their life. In this state, an individual struggles with their faith, beliefs, or relationship with a higher power, feeling that God is responsible for their suffering or hardship. This can lead to feelings of anger, betrayal, confusion, or even loss of faith.
This experience can also be described as "spiritual anger" or "theodicy crisis", where a person grapples with the question of why a loving and all-powerful God allows suffering, evil, or misfortune in their life and the world. In these situations, individuals may feel disconnected from their faith or spiritually lost, as their understanding of a just or loving God is challenged by the difficulties they face.
These experiences — church hurt, spiritual trauma, spiritual dilemmas, and spiritual crisis — can deeply impact individuals on an emotional and psychological level.
Understanding these challenges helps provide a foundation for healing and resolution, whether that involves re-engagement with faith, redefining spirituality, or finding peace outside of religious frameworks.
The healing process is often gradual and deeply personal, but with time, support, and self-compassion, individuals can move forward with greater emotional and spiritual resilience, finding peace with their past and hope for their future.
RATES & INSURANCE INFORMATION:
Individual Counseling:
$150 per 55-minute session
In-Network Insurance Providers:
Being an in-network provider means we will bill your insurance directly and charge you the appropriate copay or coinsurance up front. We are in-network with the following insurance providers:
Blue Cross Blue Shield (BCBS)
HealthChoice
Currently, our therapists accept limited insurance benefits because providers who accept in-network insurance generally agree to be paid less and must work more to be paid, taking away time and energy that could be spent helping clients.
Insurance providers also dictate diagnosis and frequency of appointments, while limiting confidentiality, meaning clients have less control over their treatment choices and private information.
Why Choose Private Pay or Out-of-Network Reimbursement?
Using out-of-network benefits gives you more options as a client. By choosing to be out-of-network, you can prioritize finding the best therapist for you and your relationship needs, rather than being restricted to providers on an approved list, while receiving similar reimbursement for the cost.
If we do not accept your insurance, we will help you determine your out-of-network cost and get reimbursed faster!
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